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Contrast bath of emotions

  Is it possible to love and hate, to praise and condemn a country within hours with feelings running deeply both ways almost at the same time?
Well, South Africa is such a country which somehow has made it a local sports to elicit the different emotions like a roller-coaster. Murder, military in townships, cash heists, robberies and the inability of politics to really serve the people, paired by a constant flow of information from the Zondo commission can lead to deep depression – the shamelessness of people like the public protector or the flip-flopping Julius Malema adds to the urge to pack up and go, writing off this once so promising country of 1994. Constant use of race as a weapon and apartheid as an excuse for incompetence or outright corruption are cherries on top of the frustration.

On the other hand I just was invited to the cultural evening of the Brooklyn Holy Cross Primary School. The students took us around the world with song and dance, they shared their dreams and watching them and their enthusiasm has exactly the opposite effect of depression: energized we all walked out – knowing that we have to support this generation of kids and youngster to have a chance in the new South Africa. Similar meeting the kids in Blikkiesdorp, Manenberg and other forgotten areas – their smiles in spite of hardship, their efforts while living in broken families, their willingness to learn and to let go – not to forget the many moms fighting to have a better future for their kids – those are the reasons to stay and to work hard so that the next generation can build on what we realistically can achieve in our lifetime.

It is in the so called poor areas, in the townships, at the bottom of society where you encounter all the reasons to stay while the shameless selfishness of most politicians, the ignorance of those “who made it” through all sorts of means using their elbows right and left and those who murder and steal without regret try very hard to push the last decency out of this country.

We need a revolution of healing in this country, a revolution which only can come if we recognize that is is up to us  – with our emotions, in our pain and hurt and with our hopes – to recognize the contrast bath of emotions, to persevere and to come out more strong, more determined to make a difference.

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Emotions

“Emotion is any conscious experience characterized by intense mental activity and a high degree of pleasure or displeasure. Scientific discourse has drifted to other meanings and there is no consensus on a definition. Emotion is often intertwined with mood, temperament, personality, disposition, and motivation” – so Wikipedia.

Creating emotions and connecting emotionally is a well know concept when it comes to fundraising, but seldom it is spoken about in a broader context and reflected in the worlds of non-profit organisations. Especially when it comes to not so pleasant forms of emotions like let’s say jealousy this is the case. Hidden behind formal questions and considerations the poison of jealousy is a formidable enemy of cooperation between non-governmental organisation – jealousy regarding fundraising results or publicity is hardly spoken about but whispered behind the backs of those involved. Jealously can destroy great work done and prevent developments needed to be up to the standard needed serving the purpose of an organisation.
Another emotion not often spoken about in our circles is the tension between humbleness and ego-trips and the mixture of those two – standing in the lime-light and being thanked at every occasion can be like a drug taken and not being missed any more.

Being in Dresden to be part of the HOPE Gala for the 12th time I am so much aware that as the chair of an organisation like HOPE Cape Town I depend solely on the goodness of other people to be able to fulfil my role in this NGO. It humbles me – again an emotion – to see how many people dedicate time and money, prayer and good thoughts to allow me to represent and lead this organisation. Without the volunteer to drive a so-called VIP, – without the cleaners making sure that the venue is clean for the show, without the chefs preparing meals for the after show party – without those working hard behind the scene to make it happen – without all those running around – HOPE Cape Town would not be what it is. Gratefulness is the feeling here to mention, a deep gratitude to all involved.

Humans are complex and so is their emotional household. We should be always aware of what it is what carries me as a person – we should always honestly assess our feelings and see what makes us tick. Honest reflection is the key.

Only when we reflect with honesty we acknowledge us and others in all the complexity we live as human beings trying to serve human mankind and making this world a better place for all.

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